China Vs India(Instead of just keep fuming over China...better we try to learn from them)

Some Days back, I was having discussion with my friends about China after seeing the 60 Years Anniversary of China.

Should we fume over China or Should we learn from them??
If we should learn then WHAT?
Is dictatorship is Good?

Here are my views:
Now I believe, India needs dictatorship for quite some time. Too much of democracy is motivating Corruption, Population etc.
Take a simple example of our day to day life, TRAFFIC. Today most of us are not following rules. Most of the Jams are because of mismanagement. Everybody can drive where he wants, whether its on wrong side, in wrong lane. No Body cares. If everybody start following rules, we can avoid most of the Jams.But for this we (as per are habit to blame others) blame police for not managing Traffic. Is this really a solution? Can Police stand at each and every corner of road? Its not feasible. Even if Police man try to stop anybody, he will not be able to give ticket because of most common problem("Tu Janta Nahi hai, mera Baap Koun hai" [You don't know who my father is]). I am not supporting Police here. Yaa there is corruption too. BUT to resolve this action, we need very strict law and order, something like dictatorship, whosoever will break the rules will get punished irrespective of his background.

Because of so many Parties in India, No Party get Complete Majority. So If anybody will try to do something good, other parties will pull their leg. That's what Happening in India. We are blaming politicians, BJP is blaming Congress, Congress is Blaming BJP...... BUT no body is caring about country. When BJP was in power they did nothing, and when congress came again the did nothing and when election came, we did nothing(didn't give vote).
So Do we really want full democracy? This is the time to wake up. We have to take some strict actions no matters if it affects some good people. To remove the terrorism from Punjab , some innocent people were also killed.
So we need to take some strict action , for that we need a government with full power. Each and every law must be for all Indian irrespective of their religion, designation, etc . We have to control our population , otherwise India will burst some day. Today we are saying India is growing, but still we have basic problems in India i.e Illiteracy and Population. We can not achieve actual progress until unless we overcome these problems.
So Lets learn from Other developing/developed countries and start improving ourselves